Monday, May 4, 2015

From Tomboy to Matriarch

All these attempts to teach children gender confusion is really bothering me.  Children go through natural phases of "not liking" the opposite sex, as well as enjoying the same interests as the opposite sex, but that really isn't a reflection of their sexuality.  Children are being sexualized at a very young age now, and that is, in my book, abuse.  Our children are being robbed of the innocence of childhood.  I truly shudder to think who and how I would be pressured, if I were a child in this day and age.  I was sexually clueless for years.  That may have been due to my multiple personality issue, but the point is, children today are inundated with sexuality from a very early age.

Although my mom was always on me about being more ladylike, and I never wanted to be like my mom, I never wanted to be a boy!  I was a tomboy, loved the outdoors, and followed Daddy everywhere I could, I still never wanted to be a boy.  I had two male cousins, one a year older and one a year younger and although I never gave any serious thought to our difference, I did realize peeing was much more convenient for boys.  They didn't have to take off their shoes to go in the house, and possibly be detained by a parent who wanted them to stay in for awhile . . . Other than that observation, I was pretty happy being a tomboy and knowing I was a girl.

The one difficulty I've had about being female, is the fact that my mother voiced her disapproval, and my sister was the picture of femininity, and we don't get along either. I couldn't play the piano, but lessons were required.  I had to walk across the living room with a book on my head, so I didn't "lope."  Summertime sports beyond swimming or tennis was out of the question.  Absolutely no softball!  I've always enjoyed being a diverse female, but I felt that I just didn't measure up.  I never felt the need to look for female approval.  Now with a husband that doesn't find me desirable, still a very disappointed mother, and one daughter who clearly stated she wouldn't want to be like me, I truly enjoy being the woman I am.  This may sound strange, but I don't respect the opinion of the naysayers, so I'm not defined by their opinion, but what about the children now?  So many are looking for a place to belong.

I still love the outdoors and can handle my share of physical work.  I can't do what a man can, but I am not a man and don't want to be one.  I do love men though!  Interestingly, the majority of men I've known through my life have consistently made the comment, that they've never known a woman like me, but it's never been said negatively toward me or other women, just in a very matter of fact statement.  I'm still an odd woman.  Everyone wants to be loved.  I'd love to be in a loving relationship, and I realize it would take a unique man to love me, but a man, none the less.  As the agenda intensifies, it appears that these children are going to be programmed to believe if someone finds them different, or they don't feel like everyone else, there is a sexual or gender identity issue and that simply is not so.

As the agenda gains momentum there have been many comments about choosing to identify . . . We all know there are little girls growing up that don't feel loved by their mothers.  Will they seek that love, later in a same sex relationship?  Many little boys are growing up with no respectable male role model.  Since the gay agenda has now changed its stand about born that way, to choosing to identify, how many of these children will be recruited simply because the agenda targets them at a certain phase or preys on their insecurities?  To introduce sexuality at a very young age causes nothing but confusion.  This is not about allowing children to express themselves, this is invasive programming, indoctrination, and recruitment!  This is targeting children through natural phases of life, to draw them into an unnatural lifestyle.

If I hadn't been the tomboy I was as a child, I would not be the matriarch I am today!

 

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